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Shirleen 
My husband is 76, and I’m 64. We’ve enjoyed a wonderful marriage and once had an exciting, erotic sex life. Recently, however, months can pass without intimacy. I was aware of his erectile dysfunction issues and assumed he had lost interest in sex. I discovered him watching a lesbian porn video while masturbating. We used … Read more
Understanding Gender Differences in Arousal Men and women experience arousal in distinct ways. While men are often visually stimulated, women are more influenced by emotions and imagination. This difference is evident in the popularity of visual pornography among men and romantic literature among women. Visual vs. Emotional Triggers Men typically react to visual stimuli, such … Read more
Understanding the Importance of Foreplay If you grew up thinking sex was just about quick, straightforward actions leading to instant gratification, you’re not alone. Movies and porn often depict sex as a hurried activity with little focus on foreplay. However, many have now realized that the buildup-everything leading up to sex-can be the most enjoyable … Read more
Introduction Creating intense desire in your partner involves focusing on three primary areas. They include making her feel truly desired, building strong sexual tension, and honing in on specific foreplay techniques that are effective for her. Let’s explore how you can achieve this. Removing Inhibitions Before diving into techniques, it’s crucial to address potential barriers … Read more
When Brandy Engler, Ph. D., began her journey as a sex therapist, she anticipated helping women whose sexual interests had waned. To her surprise, men were the ones reaching out. Engler discovered that men possess a complex internal world of emotions and experiences regarding sex. However, societal norms often discourage them from sharing these feelings … Read more
Of all the well-known sexual positions, 69 is one that often stands out-perhaps due to its notoriety from those middle school giggles whenever the number came up in class. While it might have seemed like a must-try in your adult life, mastering this tricky oral technique can present its own set of challenges. Fortunately, there … Read more
Of all the sexual positions and techniques available, scissoring is perhaps one of the most misunderstood. Often assumed to be the default method for two people with vulvas, it is neither exclusive to them nor off-limits for other couples. Regardless of anatomy, “scissoring allows for a very intimate connection,” states Peter Kanaris, PhD, a licensed … Read more
Introduction Welcome to Ella and the City-a column by Ella Snyder exploring the experiences of dating as a trans individual in New York City. This story is part of a collection that honors the resilience and joy of the trans community as they navigate love amidst societal challenges. Early Experiences with Anxiety My journey with … Read more